I was determined not to tackle this subject, but hope is needed today. I still believe in the American democracy. I believe that the idea that the election was stolen rests on the fact that in urban areas blacks and other people of color voted in record numbers and they voted overwhelmingly for Democrats, especially here in Georgia. Already the GOP in Georgia has launched a campaign to limit voting by absentee ballots, because so many blacks used them in this presidential election! It’s crazy!
Yet, I have lived long enough to see changes in race and gender relations that my parents and grandparents couldn’t have dreamed of occurring, and it’s in knowing what is possible that I see hope! A Black and Asian Indian woman, whose parents were immigrants who didn’t let race hinder their love, has been voted as Vice-President of the United States! That’s progress that gives us hope.
In 1963, I was in the seventh grade, and I remember being told that black students would attend a new school in the fall, one closer to my house. As a lover of learning, I was excited at the thought of the smell and look of a new, gleaming atmosphere for learning. I was deeply disappointed when I learned that the black kids had been given white kids’ old school, and that the white students actually received a newly built school.
Yet, in 1973, the schools in my hometown were integrated. Today, for the most part, my grandchildren and great-grandchildren attend integrated schools, and they can’t imagine that there was a time when blacks and whites couldn’t attend the same schools. They see the very notion as silly!
Also, I have witnessed more opportunities for women in the workplace. My first well-paying job in 1974 derived from Affirmative Action legislation that allowed blacks and women of all races the chances to be employed in what were considered jobs for white males only.
These changes were hard for everyone, as they meant an alteration of cultural norms that people were comfortable propagating., but we did it together, as a nation! Yet, it is obvious from the Capital riots last week that the changes that I thought were acceptable to most people, and that many people saw as right, angered significant groups of people. I truly need to understand the anger that threatens to undo so much progress in race relations and gender relations.
So, I started buying books, because education has paved the way for hope in the past. One book is titled, White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk about Racism by Robin Diangelo. Another book is “Strangers in Their Own Land: Anger and Mourning on the American Right by Arlie Russell Hochschild, and the last book is Tears We Cannot Stop: A Sermon to White America by Michael Eric Dyson.
I believe that it is in reading to comprehend the “other side of the story” that hope lives on in this American democracy. I need to understand why the Confederate flag is still a source of pride and pain, simultaneously. If we can stop and discuss and understand each other’s stories, then we can heal the land and restore hope in “one nation, under God, with liberty and justice for all.” That is my hope and it’s my prayer!
Very interesting. Thank you for posting. I’ll look up the books you suggested. Our generation has seen and experienced huge changes. Sometimes I lament some of the changes, mostly those related to too much technology. However, sometimes I reflect to my children on the positive changes that you have mentioned because they don’t understand what it used to be like. Obviously though, there is a lot more work to be done. I do believe that their generation will continue the progression that was started in the 50’s and 60’s. Concerning politics, personally, I think that various people in the media whip their listeners into a frenzy over politics. It’s not good. Politics is so divisive. We need to love God first and see how he is working in our world. I believe that difficult days are coming and we have to hang onto our faith while our world goes into freefall for a time. God still has the overcontrol and will guide us through it.
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I agree with all you say. My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus and His righteousness! Thank you for the comment. It means the world to me!
Absentee balloting was a must this year, it’s how I voted this time besides going to the polls with those poll watchers out? No thanks
A wonderful post Regina. Yes, I too still have faith in our constitution and democracy. This nightmare too shall pass. If it were not for the amazing Stacy Abrams Georgia would still be republican. Her efforts since her run for Governor 2 years ago, which was indeed ‘stolen’, have been nothing less that herculean. She is one incredible person who has fought long and hard to end voter suppression in Georgia. I hope there is a place for her somewhere in the new administration. Unfortunately race will continue to be a battle in this country for many years to come but we must press on and keep fighting the fight against white supremacy. An oxymoron if I have ever heard one 😡
Thank you for sharing your history and encouraging everyone to believe that change is indeed is possible. ❤️☺️
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